Studying Abroad. Check.
lgriswold | June 5, 2010So I am sitting here in the airport of Copenhagen with a nice lull of the hustle and bustle of internationals. There’s clinking of coffee cups, a Danish family playing a heated game of cards, and a glorious smorgasbord of languages surrounding me in the fantastically clad airport that is Copenhagen. I am about to catch a flight in two hours to Washington D.C. and then onwards to San Francisco. Back to the States. I’d never thought I’d say it. Yes it is trite – but I did think it would last forever. Europe has a way of charming you in surprising ways that you would never imagine.
This blog post won’t be littered with funny stories, it’s more of a reflection. Here goes: it’s really strange to say I’ve closed the chapter in my life that is studying abroad during junior year. I’d thought about it ever since I was in grade school and overly planned it during the past two years of college. Now it is done. I can officially say “I’ve studied abroad.” Check and check.
Was it all I expected? Yes, it most definitely was. It was so much more and to tell you the truth, I cannot even remember what I expected from the beginning. I can now identify with the study abroad student coming back and finding it hard to tell the stories that matter. I’ll say it now and I’ll say it fast: there are so many stories and fantastically crazy, bloody brilliant, beyond extraordinary, best times of my life experiences that have happened these past five months.
However, I do not want to be that person who declares “Oh yeah man, let me tell you about the time I was backpacking through Europe and sat in the back of a milk truck!” or “Whoa man, I was in the city and ran into celebrities, it was wicked awesome!” So in an avoidance of being that cliché student ragging on an on, I shall refrain from divulging all of my abroad secrets.
What can I say; I am at a loss for what to say. Gosh – I’m becoming one of those unfortunate writers that I despise because of their use of all the fallback phrases. But it’s only because I could talk about so many things…I think what I want to share most about is my love for Danish people, lifestyle, and European culture in general.
At least for me, I can say I always grew up as an individual who was dissatisfied with the ways things are done in America. I had many fortunate opportunities in my youth to explore museums, historical sites, and travel to many places. So I guess you could say I’d gained an exaggerated interest and sway of opinion towards a different way of thinking at an early age. Don’t get me wrong, I have beyond undying pride for the United States, but at the same time, some characteristics of American lifestyle are just not for me.
These traits that I have found abroad that are expressed by many and that I find extremely agreeable are the following: environmentalism, family life, slowing down, actually taking work vacation, closeness, languages, extensive knowledge of current affairs, being chic while having less materialistic things, social welfare (health care and paid education through university), simplicity, healthy/exercise oriented lifestyle, old world architecture, funky techno beats, dinner/lunch/snack/dessert that consists of epic conversation and lasts for-ev-er, and large expanses of land that don’t have inhabitants in them. I could go on and on, but I shall refrain.
Being abroad, my perspectives have not been drastically changed, but they have improved. By this I mean: no longer can I look at trends and see things from one side more than the other. I have found it easier to regard something, anything really, and question it further than I previously would have. Criticism seems to be learned trait and one that becomes more prolific over time. More prolific and I guess you could say, more substantiated, especially as a result of being exposed to different areas of life.
Although I’d always been extremely skeptical of city life, now I must say I absolutely love it. Any angst over the epic amounts of cars and being forced to walk within the lines of skinny sidewalks subsides as the charm and excitement of the city take over. It’s so interesting –really all the time, you find yourself running into new things and people that seem to be a little bit less likely in the countryside or in the random sidetracks. Metropolises thrive with internationalism in all the nooks and crannies. It’s a constant rollercoaster of happenings when you least expect it.
I had inklings about Europeans being a lot slower in their way of life. My previous experiences in France had referenced this briefly when the waitress pretty much refused to give us our check under the hour time mark of dinner. However, it makes so much sense to spend an hour at the dinner table or to only be allowed to drink your coffee in the shop. It’s not inconvenience; it just makes for a less-rushed, more enjoyed way of life. Competition is also this same way in Europe. My favorite quote from the Danish company, Carlsberg Brewery, is within their widely professed business scheme. They produce “probably the best beer in town” – quite different from saying the best. It is all in this same rhetoric of being ok with where you stand and staying a bit more slappe af, relaxed.
When I now hear that Danes are the happiest people in the world, I really have a hard time doubting it. There are so many reasons why they live so well and are gleeful beyond the usual population. So many things make sense in Denmark (and in Europe), really. But this is not without saying many problems also exist. Immigration and racism issues are extreme in Denmark, as well as many other European countries. Not to mention the economies of Spain, Portugal, and Greece being so highly depressed. So although many things are well, there is still much progress to be made.
And so I say with definite assurance, this will not be the last time I am abroad for a significant amount of time. Already, I miss Denmark and all the fantastic people I met from my program DIS, my host family, and on my travels. I would encourage anyone considering studying or traveling abroad to DEFINITELY go. Don’t think too much about it, don’t overanalyze the details, and don’t choose something that is safe – go out of your way to experience a new location, language, living situation, and travel itinerary. No matter where you end up – the opportunity to learn and experience awesome things will always present itself.








